Why should it matter? Where have we heard that size is important?
Is there smoke without fire?
We are always told that “it’s what you do with it that counts” by girlfriends, the media, celebrity “sex therapists”, the list goes on.
It’s not your imagination.
We are told this. But why? It appears that this statement is totally untrue, yes, you do need to be fairly able in the bedroom department, but that is NOT the deal breaker.
Having a large penis is the difference between good sex and AMAZING sex
The facts are this:
- Women say that penis size does not matter
- Women say that sexual talent and skill matters more
- When asked to choose, women always pick the bigger penis
How do I know this?
On listening to my female friends you begin to notice, that they would never say to your face,
“Yes, penis size is important to me, and every other girl in the world”
for fear of hurting your feelings or facing reality. They will open up a little more, once you have known them for a long time, and start to tell the truth.
I once asked some female friends of mine;
“If you had two identical guys to choose from, same looks, same personality, same sexual ability, but one had a 5 inch penis, and one had an 8 inch penis, which one would you choose?”
Every single one said;
“The one with the 8 inch penis .”
And there it was, after all of the times the girls would say:
“No, it’s not always about the size that matters.”
When you put it down in real black and white terms, the bigger penis always wins.
If it really was down to performance, the answer would have been:
“It doesn’t matter.”
But it wasn’t.
What women say to each other
My female friends discussed their sexual relationships frequently with each other. Sometimes they would go into more depth than other times.
There were comments that showed that the women who excitedly spoke about their sexual encounters, had lovers that had larger than average penises. It wasn’t outright, but comments that were made seemed to reinforce the fact that amazing sex was only had with guys with big penises. It’s a subtle difference that often goes unnoticed.
For example, here is one particular conversation I can recall,

Conversation One
“Last night Rob and I had sex for the first time.” Says Katy
“Really? How was it?” Asks Sophie
“Really nice. He was very loving.” Says Katy
Compared to this conversation,

Conversation Two
“Last night Rob and I had sex for the first time.” Says Katy
“Really? How was it?” Asks Sophie.
“Oh my god. Mind-blowing! “ Says Katy.
In the second scenario, Katy is clearly smitten and wants to brag, she wants Sophie to ask more, whereas in the first, she has had a good time, but wants to avoid the inevitable,
“Was it really big?”
What she is doing here is indirectly calling the sex "ok, nothing special", which means that she probably did not climax. Compare that to the second example, where she openly wants her friend to ask her questions, so she can brag about how amazing it was.
It seems that my female friends were having good sex with guys with average size penises, but the ones who were having mind blowing sex were having it with guys who had penises big enough to brag about.
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